
There are four primary body shapes: The Pear,
Triangle, Hourglass and Willow. |
A Perfect Fit
By Karen Benning
Finding a wedding dress for your body shape
You say you don't look like those perfect models in all the bridal
magazine ads? Your bust is too small and your hips are too big?
Or vice-versa? Take heart; you can still find a wedding dress that
accentuates the positive. Whatever your body shape, you can look
stunning on your wedding day.
First, determine what body shape you have. Knowing your body shape
will help when you're looking for a dress that emphasizes - or de-emphasizes
- particular features.
There are four primary body shapes. The Pear, as the name implies,
is larger in the lower body than at the top. If you have wide hips
but narrow shoulders or a small chest, you might be a Pear. The
Triangle is the opposite, with a broader upper body and smaller
lower body features. The Hourglass is evenly proportioned at the
chest and hips, set off by a narrow waist. The Willow is generally
slim all over, without any major defining curves.
While most brides think carefully about many aspects of their wedding
including the location, food and photography, they sometimes select
a dress based on a picture from a bridal magazine, without considering
their body shape.
Donna Love, owner of Donna's Corner in Big Lake, says that most
customers who come in "have fallen in love with a dress that
looks good on the 6-foot-tall, size 2 model in the picture."
Many, however, end up buying a dress quite different than the one
they first thought they wanted. The main reason is body shape.
A Triangle or an Hourglass with a large bust, for example, might
want to stay away from a sweetheart neckline. It can make them look
"like Dolly Parton." Love also says that a Pear with a
thick waist can use a princess line to slim her look by up to 20
pounds. And a Willow often looks fabulous in a sheath skirt.
Love emphasizes that it is important to try a dress on, rather than
relying on a picture or what a dress looks like on the rack. And
Love is honest with her customers. "I won't sell anything that
doesn't look good," she says.
Michael Bartels also sees pictures of dream dresses that don't necessarily
offer the best look for a particular body shape. Bartels, owner
of Silhouettes Bridal in Fairbanks, tries to recommend dresses that
compliment, rather than detract, from the bride's appearance.
"Nine times out of ten, once they try on something [that fits
their body shape], they fall in love with it," he says.
Bartels looks at it this way: "What do you do when you go shopping
for clothes? You try them on. Well, this is the most important day
of your life. You need to try on lots of dresses."
Even once you enter a dress shop, you probably don't want to start
trying on dresses right away, says Diane Tresham, owner of Arctic
Rose Bridal Boutique in Wasilla. She suggests starting with the
foundation. Finding the right undergarments can take care of some
body shape issues right away, adding new possibilities for dress
styles that will look great.
Once the customer starts putting on dresses, Tresham asks the question,
"Is this a beautiful bride, or is that a beautiful dress? I
like for people to see the whole person."
She adds that in order to maintain as many options as possible,
brides need to begin dress shopping early, starting around nine
months before the wedding date. This allows for proper measuring,
special orders, alterations and finding all of the right accessories
such as shoes, undergarments and veils or tiaras.
With advance planning and knowledge of your body shape, Tresham
says, "There's always the right dress."
See pages of gorgeous gowns pictured in Alaska
Bride & Groom magazine, on newsstands now. Alaska
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