Ahhh, the honeymoon. That time when you can vow, "I promise to
tan, relax and swim 'til golf do us part." After the rigors of
planning a wedding, it's the one trip you both wholeheartedly deserve.
To make sure your days in the sun will be trouble-free, plan your
honeymoon well in advance, giving yourself plenty of time to research
and think about the trip. Here's a guideline to help make the honeymoon
planning go smoothly.
6-8
months
Decide on the type of honeymoon you want -- a tropical beach,
a relaxing cruise, a romantic all-inclusive resort, a fun-filled
theme park, an exotic adventure or a little of everything.
Settle on a budget for the trip considering every possible expense:
plane tickets, car rental, hotel, meals and bar bills, gifts you
might buy, sightseeing trips, souvenirs, tips, taxes, and any
day-to-day expenses such as poolside towel service.
Start to research possible honeymoon destinations.
Take inventory of any frequent flier mileage you and your fiancé
might have accumulated. You might be able to use your mileage
for airline tickets, seat upgrades, car rentals or hotel room
upgrades.
4-6 months
Book your airline tickets with your travel agent or online service.
Be sure to ask about any honeymoon discounts or special packages.
Record all confirmation numbers.
Book your hotel room, being very specific about your requirements,
e.g., a quiet, ocean view, non-smoking room on a high floor. Ask
for a confirmation number. Again, inquire about honeymoon specials
and extras. You'll be surprised how often you'll find discounts
and special services for newlyweds!
Book a rental car if you think you'll need one. Some package
tours and vacations include rental cars, and many all-inclusive
resorts are self-contained, making car rental unnecessary.
When reservation paperwork begins to arrive, keep it all in
a big envelope or a folder. Be sure to create a list of phone
numbers for all the hotels, airlines, and agencies you'll be using.
Find out about any health certificate requirements and vaccinations
you might need (when visiting certain third world countries),
and make a doctor's appointment to have them. Also ask your doctor
about any precautionary medication you should bring along.
3 months
If traveling out of the U.S., make sure your passport is valid.
If not, apply for a passport now. For more information, visit
http://travel.state.gov/passport_obtain.html.
The names on your tickets must match the names on your passports,
so most likely, you'll want to make sure to use your maiden name
for your airline tickets.
Be sure you know about and have applied for any visas required
by your destination.
Call the airlines to confirm your reservations, request seating
assignments, and, if necessary, arrange for special meals. Some
airlines will even issue boarding passes at this point.
Complete any reservations still pending.
2 months
Purchase all the travel accessories you might need: film, batteries,
sunblock, swimsuits, luggage, etc.
1 month
Make certain all money matters are in order. Be sure your credit
cards are valid and that you will have enough cash or traveler's
checks on hand.
Stop by the bank and purchase some currency of the country you'll
be visiting.
Confirm all reservations.
Contact the places you'll be staying to make any necessary reservations
for dinners, tours, special events, etc.
Prepare an itinerary for your trip (be sure to include phone
numbers of where you'll be staying) and give a copy to a friend
or relative in case of emergency.
Start thinking about your packing list.
Make sure all your bills are current. If you will be away longer
than a month, you can arrange for prepayment of most bills.
If you have a pet, make arrangements for its care during your
time away. Ask a friend to stop by and water your plants and pick
up your mail.
Make arrangements for wedding gifts to be delivered to a place
other than your home during the time you'll be away (a relative's
place might be the best idea).
2 weeks
If you are using a travel agent, pick up your tickets and confirm
that all plans are in order.
If you plan to use traveler's checks and haven't purchased them
yet, now is a good time to do so. Copy down the check numbers
and keep them separate from the checks.
Make a copy of your passport and keep it separate from your
original document.
1 week
Pack your carry-on bag. Include reading materials, your toiletries,
any medication you might need, and a change of clothes in case
your luggage goes astray.
If you want to have your mail and newspapers held, make arrangements
now.
Ask a friend or neighbor to check on your home in case stray
wedding presents are delivered while you're gone.
Pack thank-you notes and your address list so you can write
notes on the plane.
3 days
Make a final confirmation of all reservations, especially if
you are planning an overseas flight.
Buy reading materials for the flight.
Finalize plans on how you'll get to and from the airport.
Day of Departure
If you are leaving on the day of your wedding, have one of your
attendants call the airline and confirm flight times before you
leave for the airport.
Be sure all of your tickets and travel documents are easily
accessible in your carry-on bag.
Plan to arrive at the airport early. Most airlines ask that
passengers check in about two hours in advance for domestic flights
and longer for overseas flights.
When checking in, mention to the ticket agent that you are leaving
on your honeymoon. You may get an upgrade or even some special
V.I.P treatment!
Relax and have a wonderful, romantic vacation.
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